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Now, there is nothing wrong with acknowledging that men and women are different, because they are. It sounds almost like women are biologically incapable of reading maps, so deal with it. It takes no account of the social conditioning. It ignores the fact that our experiences are not individual and fixed, but social and processual. This is of course influenced by our social conducts and what we define as socially acceptable.
Even if we refuse to talk about evolution, there have been many studies that drew from past societies which show how men and women used to behave differently in those societies. For example, unlike present day, in ancient Greece it was considered acceptable and natural for young men to perform fellatio on older men. My point is that categories of social analysis do not transcend time and place. Our behavior, values and moralities depends much more on our social environment than it does on our biological inheritance.
Since the writers are trained in neuroscience, one can probably forgive them for their thick-headed conclusions about the social environment. I am not a relationship expert but I know my science and arts well. This book is a disgrace to both of the disciplines.
You would be better off finding a man who does listen. Believe me, there are plenty of men who have learnt to listen like there are plenty of women who have learnt to read maps. View all 16 comments. Mar 27, Jennifer rated it did not like it. I received it as a gift. I hated it!
If I could give it zero stars I would. The husband and wife who wrote this book claim to be social scientists. Their style of writing is not in the least bit scientific. They do the reader the grand favor of presenting "facts" backed up by hard science and sifting through the information on gender differences so the reader doesn't have to.
In my opinion, what they really did was start out with a theory and discard anything that didn't agree with it. Some of th I received it as a gift. Some of the physiological gender differences they refer to might actually be backed by scientific data. But the Peases fail to footnote any of the so-called facts with documentation of actual scientific publications or studies.
And they also do the reader the great favor of telling him or her that if they disagree with their conclusions, it is only because the reader has been "victimized" by idealization. I don't think their conclusion that men and women are different is nearly as shocking as they think it is. In fact I agree that there are differences between the genders, and some of it is based on biology. However, the Peases discard theories of socialization to explain some gender differences and instead insist gender differences are mostly based on men and women evolving differently.
And while they claim that they support women's rights to equality and working outside the home for equal compensation, they simultaneously advance the theory that relationships were happier when women got their self-esteem from providing a happy home for their hardworking husband and offspring. Their theory is pretty easy to challenge.
After all if women were really so happy historically being homemakers, why would so many of them risked bliss on the homefront to join the workforce, fought for the right to vote, etc. I found this book as pandering to stereotypes and managing to insult both genders. Gender based humor shows up in a lot of entertainment.
The reason I find it so angering in this book is that the Peases claim their information is all backed by science. And yet most of their conclusions are not backed by much data. They will do things like cite "a recent study" or throw out a statistic without actually giving any information about who performed the study, was it peer-reviewed, how was the study set up, etc.
I also find it comical when they make claims that girls are mainly motivated by cooperation and you can't tell a leader in a group of women. It makes me question whether the Peases ever set foot in a grade school. I certainly recall there being a pecking order with the girls that was at least as clear, if not more defined than that of the boys.
View all 8 comments. Aug 20, David Rubenstein rated it it was amazing Shelves: psychology , biology. What a fun book! This book by the well-known authors Barbara and Allan Pease is controversial perhaps, but well-grounded in new research. Parts of the book are absolutely hilarious, but they all ring true. The basic hypothesis in this book is that the brains in men and women are organized differently. While morally, men and women are equal, they are not identical. The wiring of our brains and the effects of hormones determine how we think and behave.
The corpus callosum, the bundle of nerves whi What a fun book! In addition, some brain functions, like speech, are distributed between both sides of women's brains, but are isolated in one side of men's brains. As a result, a woman's brains handle speech better. Also, women can perform true multi-tasking and multi-tracking, while men find it difficult.
The book is illustrated with numerous cartoons. While many of the cartoons are exaggerated, each one points out a truism about differences between the way men and women think. Men's brains have evolved to help men with their main job; catch lunch. As a result, their think is more focused, and they have better spatial reasoning abilities.
This is especially true when a man's system is flush with testosterone. On the other hand, women's brains have evolved to aid their main job; to be nurturing. They are much better at communicating, and are better at multi-tasking. Women are also better at multi-tracking; keeping track of conversations about multiple topics simultaneously. One of the best aspects of this book, is that not only do the authors point out the differences between men and women, but a lot of very practical advice is given.
Both men and women are given advice about how to make allowances for the opposite sex. You see, people have been instilled with the idea that men and women are identical, and people think that others think along the same lines as themselves.
But this just isn't true. Men have big advantages spatial thinking, problem solving and women have big advantages communications, observation and intuition , simply due to the wiring of brains. I highly recommend this book; it is so fun, and contains so many pearls of wisdom that ring true. View all 7 comments. Aug 26, Jen rated it it was amazing Shelves: psychology. In our modern society, it is not politically correct to assume that men and women are anything but equal, and equality is defined as exactly the same.
Same desires, same goals, and same needs. Allan Pease and his wife Barbara write that this is anything but how it really is. Neither sex is superior to the other, but they assert we are unquestionably different. From an evolutionary psychology perspective, our brains have been wired for different priorities based upon thousands of years of unique In our modern society, it is not politically correct to assume that men and women are anything but equal, and equality is defined as exactly the same.
From an evolutionary psychology perspective, our brains have been wired for different priorities based upon thousands of years of unique responsibilities while ensuring the survival of the next generation.
Pease cites empirical research along with illustrative anecdotes. While mostly focused on heterosexual relationships, it also devotes a wonderful chapter to the biological basis for homosexuality as a natural phenomenon.
Once we can logically explain these differences as the result of hardwired neurological developments, we can lessen the pressure on ourselves and our partner and accept one another as we are. Also, reading this, it's critical to remember much of what is discussed is generalization and not indicative of every man and every woman.
Even if it's not their natural proclivity, men can learn to listen and be more sensitive with the women. Likewise, a woman can better learn to enjoy the male tendency to interpret "romance" as doing something practical for her. Inti dari buku ini adalah Ingetna kalo pagi2 bokap selalu treak2 nyari kaos kaki di tempat kaos kaki kalo mau tenis. Meskipun sudah ngaduk2 itu tempat kaos kaos kaki yang dicari tetep aja kaos kaki yang dicari gak ketemu. Dan masalah komunikasi antara laki2 dan perempuan yang sering menimbulkan "masalah" karena masing menginterpretasikannya secara berbeda.
Ingat, just joke aja, jangan ditanggapi terlalu serius yah.. How the Fight Start I asked my wife, "Where do you want to go for our anniversary? So I suggested, "How about the kitchen? My wife sat down on the couch next to me as I was flipping channels. She asked, 'What's on TV? When I got home last night, my wife demanded that I take her someplace expensive. So I took her to a gas station. And that's when the fight started My wife was hinting about what she wanted for our upcoming anniversary.
She said, 'I want something shiny that goes from 0 to in about 3 seconds. And then the fight started Intinya, joke diatas itu mengungkapkan kekurangpekaan laki2 dalam berkomunikasi dengan perempuan :D satu lagi deh, merujuk kejudul awalnya "Why Men Don't Listen" ada joke lain tentang laki2 yang berusaha "mendengar" To Be 6 Again A man asked his wife what she'd like for her birthday. On the morning of her birthday, he got her up bright and early and off they went to a local theme park.
What a day! Five hours later she staggered out of the theme park, her head reeling and her stomach upside down. Right to a McDonald's they went, where her husband ordered her a Happy Meal with extra fries and a refreshing chocolate shake. What a fabulous adventure! Finally she wobbled home with her husband and collapsed into bed. He leaned over and lovingly asked, "Well, dear, what was it like being six again? Men are from earth. Women are from earth. So, deal with it.
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